Happy propose day to you all!
Disclaimer 1: I may not be the person to give you *tips to propose* but well, “I think” I know love… So I am kind of sure that I’ll be able to manage okay. :)
Disclaimer 2: NEVER NEVER NEVER propose to anyone unless you really mean it. Someone once wrote somewhere – imagine yourself on a crowded-hot-stinky bus journey of 24 hours. Imagine the person sitting next to you is the one you are about to propose. If your heart does not feel happy about it, wait. Relationships ARE fragile. Postpone proposing – at least for now..
Initially, the thought behind the blog post was to give you the top 20 tips & tricks, songs, ideas etc. to propose your Valentine or recreate the magic of your first date. But, I guess the whole post would have given all the pieces of information, tools & ideas but would have just one small element missing… And, I still have to figure out that one missing thing for myself…
Well, there are so many thoughts crowded in my mind, that till I reach the end of this post, I might forget to add – we do have a printable at the end of this post. It’s a simple card that you can write your thoughts on and give it to your beloved one. Hope you like it :)
Valentine’s:Â People say that there is no special day to care for someone, to love someone, to make them feel that they are a part of our life or the matter of fact that they are our life… Each moment; no matter whether when we loved each other or fought; had been the most beautiful moment of my life. The light in my eyes & the smile on my lips say that I’ll cherish those moments for my whole life. I promise that I’ll take care of you; I promise that I’ll always hold you if you fumble; I’ll guard you, if the world goes harsh; I’ll kiss you for you are my angel; I’ll love you forever & ever..
Yes! You don’t need a particular day to feel that, to say that but you know what? “Life is really funny…” & “We are funny bunch of people in this extremely funny world…”Â We hurt them the most whom we love the most & the beauty is that they still love you… We go to office every day, pay monthly Internet bills, or make yearly investments because if we don’t do it; we don’t get the pay, the network provider will cut the connection, & we’ll have no saving for our future..
But out of all the practical things in our lives, we don’t have time for the most important someone who is the strength behind continuing the race; who never says but is there for you when things aren’t right; who waits for you so that both of you could have dinner together, or sleeps while waiting..Â Someone with whom you don’t even know but you feel secured, as if nobody can hurt you, everything will fall in place, strength behind “I know I can figure it out”. Someone who tastes your coffee so it is just right for you. Someone who gently tucks you in, when you fall asleep with your laptop running on your lap.Â Someone who leaves the light on and sleeps a little uncomfortably, because you are scared of darkness. Who praises your cooking most on that day when you’ve goofed up the salt or spice – just so that you don’t feel bad or guilty for ruining a dinner.
Isn’t it strange? We are scared or don’t have time for saying the most simple yet the most magical words of the world…Â Scared of saying, “I love you” or “Will you be mine?” Or “Life has been a beautiful journey so far with you. I think I am addicted to this beauty & I am not sure whether I’ll be able to live without it, will you marry me?”Â Or the time to say that “I never knew life could be so beautiful, thanks for making me feel that..” or “Thanks for being there” or simply, “I am lucky to have you.”.. :)Â Yes! They know it but, see the light in their eyes when you say these words to them see the smile on their lips when they hear it from you & feel the moment really getting sealed, the clock stops ticking.. :) That magic.. :)
Today is Propose Day & we need not tell you how to make him/her feel special because you know it already…Â It might be flowers, chocolates, or just your visit, a luxurious elaborate date or a simple video chat, or a “Pani Poori” date…Â Tell him/her that he/she means world to you in front of the whole world…Â or tell him where only he/she can hear it & rest of the world doesn’t matter…Â Sing him/her a song no matter how bad you are, & trust me it works…Â or if you are not sure, dedicate a song & send him/her the link… :) & to help you in this, please find a list of songs at the end of the post, that you might find handy… ;)
Go tell your Valentine that you love them, give them a rose, dedicate a song, plan a date, & choose earth or sky or water, choose temple or home or pub, choose words or painting or music.. anything & everything to make them feel that you care.. :) And, that it matters.. :) Your company can fire you, the network can get jammed, & you might be able to save a lot of money but you might not have the same someone with whom you wanted to spend your whole life.. :) Life is not about eating the most exotic food, it’s about the pleasure of eating porridge or pickle & bread with someone’s hands.. It’s not about having a wardrobe full of branded clothes, it’s about that one sweater that Uncle Joseph gave to Aunt Mary in year 1982 & she keeps it safe in her cupboard & feels his presence when she wears it.. :) It’s not about living in a wonderful bungalow with silence all around but a silent walk with him/her on the beach under the beautiful star studded sky ceiling.. :) Life is beautiful & the sweetest pleasures of life are the simplest ones.. So keep it simple.. J Say it today because tomorrow,.. :) it might not come.. :)
Wish you luck & all the best wishes for this Valentine.. :) Cyas.. :)
I Just Wanna Spend My Life With You: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ilkYsKf3M38
Love Me For A Reason – Boyzone: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2BmYZkODlg
I Love you till the end – P.S. I love you: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3bhidWDI1v8
Only Hope – A Walk To Remember: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8f8RHWMPyY
My heart belongs to you always and forever…: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IfLnMssXl7I
My Heart Will Go On – Titanic: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GwcnXxfhzI
(Everything I Do) I Do It For You – Bryan Adams: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vFD2gu007dc
Addicted – Enrique Iglesias: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avap91mc3ZY&ob=av2e
Tujhe dekha – DDLJ: www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOWvnwxGFzg
Kabhi aisa lagta hai – Lucky Ali: www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sj51hczJ5Gc
Hum Aapke Hain Kaun – Hum Aapke Hain Kaun: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QyJoeduGpJI
Dil To Pagal Hai – Dil To Pagal Hai:Â http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vFe-R-D9Kig&feature=fvst
Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam – Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LPH9F2vWpY
Zara Si Dil Mein De Jagah Tu – Jannat: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTtiUpUXrRA
Gori Teri Ankhen Kahe – Album: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4e0_qNEo7J4
Kuch Na Kaho – 1942 A Love Story: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z54CDF_mH04
Jab Koi Baat Bigad Jaye – Jurm: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BAqgHmIwp00
Te Amo – Dum Maaro Dum: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RzrHo-bqT5U
Tera Hone Laga Hoon – Ajab Prem Ki Ghazab Kahani: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLKvl6DzDCI
Here is my first dedication…Â to someone who made me understand love…Â who made me feel it…Â & who…
“I might not know what love is but I know when I think of it…Â I think of you…Â So, for me…Â you are love…Â & this is for you… “
I Love you till the end – P.S. I Love You: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3bhidWDI1v8
PS: “Maine deewane se poocha mohobbat kya hai? Jawab mein usne shama jalai aur haskar bujha di..” :)
p.p.s. Here’s the link to your downloadable card. Enjoy!!!