Moving from India to US – part 3 – getting settled

So, hopefully by now you have made it to USA successfully, have checked in at a hotel or at a temporary place of residence like a friend’s / relative’s home. You made it through the first two steps! That’s awesome, don’t you think? :-)
Ok, here’s the last post in this series (at least for now) and this one should help you get settled at least in the beginning. You can find the previous ones here and here.
Of course, if you are anything like us, you’ll never really get “settled”, you’ll keep improving, decorating, creating etc, but at least at the end of following steps in this post, you’ll be able to live comfortably without “having” to do any more things.


  1. A place to call home – Understandably the first thing on your mind will be a place to call your home. The research you have done while still being in India will help, but make sure you rent a car and visit shortlisted places before you finalize anything. As questions like
    1. What are the different terms of lease agreement and find out relative cost to you over the year. Sometimes, if you are starting your lease in peak period (usually summer time) then you might want to consider a 6 month lease. That way, your term will end sometime in winter (non peak season) and your rent after 6 months will be lower. You might also want to consider a 6 months lease if you are not sure that you completely like the place and wish to know the locality better.
    2. Find out what documents they need. Make sure you check the initial deposit etc too.
    3. What is the criteria for breaking a lease or terminating. In case because of your job situation if you need to move, how flexible will the community be?
    4. Check with community folks about which school they are zoned for. Check if the school has a bus route to that community if you are not planning to drop and pick up your kids yourself.
    5. It’s also a good idea to check if the community has any kids play area or parks nearby. 
    6. (Update) Very important: Within 10 days of your moving (first time or even later) you must update your address @ for the records of USCIS. For anyone who is not a citizen of USA, but is living in the US on a long term visa, has to keep this site updated.
  2. SSN – In USA, your Social Security Number is the key to a lot of money related things including your payroll and your taxes. So visit and find out all the information about how you can go about getting it. In fact, you could start the process before even getting to US by following the steps given at Too bad we didn’t know about this when we came. Anyways.
  3. Banks – It’s a good idea to choose a bank from whom you would eventually want to take a car loan from. Usually when banks give you a loan, they ask you to open a checking account with them and have your salary deposited in the same bank. Your loan application also becomes easier if you already have an account with them. We also found out that most of the banks needed some level of credit history for giving us loan, but we had “just arrived”, so it was a little harder to get a loan. is what really helped us because their loan approval policy was much more immigrant friendly. Also their rates are great, so I would recommend going with them. The only down side is that their phone support is always too busy, so you might have to try several times before you get your loan finally done. 
  4. Car – For your first car in US, specially if you are budget conscious, it is a good idea to go for used cars. Make sure you do buy from a reliable business entity like authorized dealers etc, so you know you are not getting a scrappy deal. We did not opt for “company certified” though, because that would mean more cost to us. But it’s totally up to you here. For our first car, we chose a small car, but a newer model instead of an older one. This helped us get a good return value on it when we exchanged it for a bigger car (mini van). Here are some websites which will help you understand the value of car you are buying and compare it with what the seller is asking for:
  5. Places to shop for your home
    1. Target is good place for all kinds of shopping. It’s a good idea to ask one of your friends to let you use their redcard. You can pay for the shopping yourself, but take advantage of the 5% off. If you apply for the redcard at Target as soon as you come over, you might not get approved as they do need some credit history. After a few months when you have had a chance to build your credit history, you’d want to get this card on your own. 
    2. is online shopping place for things you are comfortable shopping online for (obviously) and are able to wait for things to arrive. It’s a good idea to take prime membership because specially during your first couple years, you will end up shopping every so often and the prime membership will give you free 2 day shipping.
    3. Bed bath and beyond – is another good place and they do have 20% off coupons on website and they also come in emails. 
    4. For things like dinner sets, cutlery and small appliances, Walmart is also a good store. 
  6. Shopping list for kitchen – While you are just getting started, its best to go easy on the budget and shop only necessities. Here are some things you might want to consider. 
    1. Check if the apartment community has a microwave in the kitchen already. If it doesn’t, you might want to consider buying it.
    2. Blender (mixer) 
    3. Water purifier
    4. Dinner set –  set for 4 and includes tea / coffee mugs
    5. Silverware (Spoons, forks etc)
    6. Glasses for water and other drinks
    7. Frying pan(s) 
    8. Saucepan(s) (kadhai)
    9. Serving spoons
    10. Plastic bag clips – before you buy a whole lot of containers, these little clips will come in very handy for making sure your stuff stays good. Also, a lot of things like spices, yogurt (dahi) and protein mixes (or Bournvita) will come in really good reusable containers. So you might decide to not buy storage containers for kitchen for a long time.
    11. Trash cans
  7. Shopping list for Bedroom
    1. Mattress
    2. Bed frame
    3. Comforter
    4. Sheet set
    5. Pillows
  8. Shopping list bathroom
    1. Shower curtains
    2. Toothbrush holder
    3. Liquid soap dispenser
    4. Shower caddy 
    5. Bathroom storage (optional)
  9. Furniture 
    1. Rent – If you do not wish to invest a whole lot in furniture, it is a good idea to rent it. Places like Cort make it easy. Also if you move in around the time when some event (like labor day) has just passed, then chances are that most furniture stores will not have any significant discounts going on. In this case also, you might consider renting furniture instead of buying at least for the first few months. 
    2. Buy – If you do decide to buy though, some good options are Rooms To Go (they have coordinating room sets for all your needs). You should also check out consignment stores like Finders Keepers.
  10. Phone connection
    1. USA calling / cellphone: We use Family Mobile (Walmart + T-mobile offering) for myself and my husband and we love it. Specially their prices!
    2. India calling: We have taken a Vonage line at home and when I’m not at home or travelling, I use Dial91.
  11. Internet
    1. For this one it is best to take recommendations from your local friends. We used Comcast in Tennessee and apart from their lengthy wait times on customer service calls, we did not have any complaints. We got good speed and used it for TV, Vonage, 2 laptops as well as 2 tablets. When we moved to Washington though, their speed could not keep up with  1 laptop + tv. So we have switched to Frontier. So far it is working well. Overall, I would recommend asking others in your community for this one. 
  12. TV
    1. We do have a television set, but we don’t have cable. We have a Roku streaming player and have taken netflix subscription (for English movies and cartoons) + we do have Amazon prime subscription (over 40,000 movies and TV shows, English) and we have taken dishworld subscription (Hindi). Meets our needs for Hindi as well as English news + sports + entertainment.
    2. Alternatively, you might want to consider a Smart TV which comes with inbuilt support for channels like Netflix and Amazon prime.
Phew. That’s a long list. I sincerely hope it is helpful to you. If there is anything that I might have missed or something specific you’d like to know, please don’t hesitate to leave me a comment below.
Also, if you have any favorite sources or tips, please do share them for the benefit of other readers. 
Thanks so very much!
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Comments on Moving from India to US – part 3 – getting settled

  1. Archana says:

    A mere coincidence-you wrote this article exactly a year ago. :)
    Thank you so much for the whole package, series rather, information on what to do and what not to.
    looking forward to reading more of such articles that actually help an Indian to get well prepared for the BIG move.
    Great going!

    1. Varada says:

      Thanks so much for your kind words, Archana :-)

  2. Pavani says:

    Thanks for the article. Quite informative and very helpful. Moving next month and worried sick about how kids would take it. 11 years and 5years.

    1. Varada says:

      Don’t worry. You will be surprised how resilient kids are. Far more than sometimes we given them credit for. Try to think of moving as an adventure or a vacation trip. It will help make things lighthearted for everyone. ? good luck and thanks for dropping by… hope you will keep in touch even after moving here. ?

    2. Varada says:

      Hope your move is/ was smooth! Didn’t realize I had not responded. Sorry about that. Good luck on your move :-)

  3. Aruna Parthiban says:

    Can you suggest any shipment firm if we intend to move few if our things from India. Some brand new stuffs that we are not sure if we want to leave it behind.

    1. Varada says:

      Hi Aruna, thanks for dropping by. A few years ago, one of my friends had used DHL company to get some utensils etc shipped to US from India. They did not have any trouble. If you are thinking of shipment boxes like that, you can definitely give them a try. For larger pieces like furniture etc, you would want to work with a cargo company. I personally have not done anything like this cross country. Will check out some more among folks here and reply again if I find more information.

      Good luck with your move! Hugs!!

  4. P K says:

    Varada, How much would you say should be one’s annual salary to sustain a decent lifestyle in NYC for a family of 4? 2 adults and 2 kids (6 and 3) I’m on crossroads on deciding a US job offer and would want to weigh in on lifestyle expenses. I understand it varies a lot depending on personal choices, but still any pointers would be helpful.

    1. Varada says:

      You are right, sir! It is very much dependent on your personal choices. I have no experience living in NYC or east coast in general. May be you could check out some other web sites / forums? Good luck with your decision and move.

      Thanks for dropping by!

  5. Pooja Vasant says:

    Hey varada.. I have read all of your article’s 3 parts .. Need your help with one thing, as you have mentioned earlier that try to avoid getting too many things from India..
    Now my query is ,as our luggage transportation will be managed by our company, what are the things except pressure cooker & pans you think will be economical in India.. As in I was thinking to bring some tupperware containers what do you think, should I get it from India or it will be better to buy it over there.. Sorry for the long post.. Thanks in Advance..!

    1. Varada says:

      Hey Pooja, thanks for dropping by and thanks for long post! :-) I think containers etc are quite easily and economically available here. If there are some specific ones you are used to / like, since your company is getting things moved for you, you could bring them over too. Totally your choice. If it were up to me, I would bring over some specific pans like the idli maker, or appam pan, or the gadget we use to make sev etc which are relatively harder to get here.

      Hope your move goes smooth! Do keep in touch :-)

      1. Pooja Vasant says:

        Thanks varada.. Will keep it in mind

  6. Anand says:

    Hi Vardha , I really find your article very useful and informative , thanks for this , my concern is that I will be traveling with my 2.5 year old son and want to know about pediatrician and there cost .


    1. Varada says:

      Thanks for dropping by, Anand!
      Typically your employer will provide health insurance for you and your family. You will need to find a pediatrician in your insurance provider’s network (for example, BCBS network, Aetna network etc) to keep costs low. Finding a pediatrician is usually done using online tools and is fairly easy process. Of course staying healthy is the best way to avoid out of pocket spending, because mostly preemptive care like regular checkups, vaccines and immunization are mostly free.
      Hope this makes sense. Let me know if you still have queries.
      Good luck with your move!

  7. Aarthi Ramani says:

    Hi Vardha, I really loved your post and the series! and thanks for these tips, they have made my planning easier. !!

    1. Varada says:

      Thanks for your kind words, Aarthi! Good luck with your move.

  8. Rohan Dodal says:

    Hi Varada, thank you for all the 3 series. It is very helpful. Can you help me understand what other expenses are there for apartments like municipal taxes, electricity, water, gas etc. I am planning to rent apartment. What expenses do I pay & wt home owner covers? Can you also guide us on these things?

    1. Varada says:

      Hi Rohan,

      Thanks for dropping by. Typically the taxes etc for apartments are not paid by the person renting it. The expenses apartment rentals require are typically water, sewer, electricity, renter’s insurance. Also, if your community does not provide appliances like microwave / washer-dryer etc, then you might consider leasing them from companies like at least for some time. So, you would need to pay for that too. Hope that helps!


  9. Sandhya says:

    Hi Varada, thank you so much for your post. Given that we are considering moving back to US, this was a godsend :) Just wanted to know your thoughts about moving kids from India in the middle of the school year. What are the considerations? What are the things to look for while shortlisting public schools? And, do you have any idea on what would be the documents to have in hand before reaching out to schools??

    1. Varada says:

      Hi Sandhya, thanks for dropping by. Sorry I am responding late (you know, Diwali and what-not!)… For which documents to choose and how to decide on school zone or your home locality, do check our part 1 ( and part 2 ( of this series. That should answer most your questions.

      There is not much difference academically between moving kids from one year to next vs in the middle of a school year. I believe kids specially in elementary school or even middle school regular courses kids should be okay. If you are thinking of having your kids take an honors class or something, that you will need to take from the following year.

      The one area where you will need to help kids cope when they join in the middle of a school year, will be their social circle and their communication / language skills. For this you will need to work with teachers and other parents. You should be fine :-)

      Good luck with your adventures. Hope everything goes well for you and your family :-)

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